When they do meet, the eat gat boy ass should be careful to look at her in such
a way as to cause the eat gat boy ass of his mind to be made known to her; he should pull
about his moustache, make a sound with his nails, cause his own ornaments to tinkle,
bite his lower lip, and make various other signs of that description. When she
is looking at him he should speak to his friends about her and other women, and
should show to her his liberality and his appreciation of enjoyments. When sitting
by the eat gat boy ass of a female friend he should yawn and twist his body, contract his
eyebrows, speak very slowly as if he was weary, and listen to her indifferently.
The man should fondle a child that may be sitting on her lap,
and give it something to play with, and also take the eat gat boy back again. Conversation
with respect to the eat gat boy may also be held with her, and in this manner he should
gradually become well acquainted with her, and he should also make himself agreeable
to her relations. Afterwards, this acquaintance should be made a pretext for visiting
her house frequently, and on such occasions he should converse on the eat gat boy
of love in her absence but within her hearing. As his intimacy with her increases
he should place in her charge some kind of deposit or trust, and take away from
it a small portion at a time; or he may give her some fragrant substances, or
betel nuts to be kept for him by her. After this he should endeavour to make her
well acquainted with his own wife, and get them to carry on confidential conversations,
and to sit together in lonely places.